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Winners from the Listening Party

boscokante — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 20:20:40 +0000

Winners from Listening Party

Thank you to everyone who came out to the Portland Listening Party! It was the world premiere of the new album and it meant a lot to me that you were there to share it with me! The winners pictured above were the first to RSVP and they got a copy of my new CD. I saw plenty heads noddin’ as they drove away…

Check some video from the party below! Stay tuned for more events and shows soon….

We’re not in love (but we pretend)

boscokante — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 07:48:35 +0000

The song “ Just F*ckin” is usually misinterpreted to be about a man wanting to use women for sex. The song is really about being honest about what you want. The man is clearly stating that he doesn’t want an exclusive or “serious” relationship with this woman. Whereas the woman is not being honest by agreeing to this relationship in the hopes of changing his mind (perhaps with some of that good good ( ; ).

When a man tells a women upfront that he is only interested in a sexually relationship with her, and she agrees to partake in the relationship on that level, why is it usually seen as the mans fault if things turn sour? Is there something so wrong with admitting you enjoy screwin the dog sh*t out of someone without wanting to put a ring on his or her finger? Do most women have a tendency to be unrealistic about their inability to maintain a low level of emotional attachment after sex or are they just lyin to kick it?

What’s Really Real? (You want The Truth!)

boscokante — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:51:33 +0000

On the topic of keeping it real: How many women out there who claim they want a “Real Man” are lying to themselves? Ladies – isn’t it true that when asked what a real man is to you it includes one who is not a “dog”, is truthful, takes care of his responsibilities etc. etc? So then “Good Guys”- Why does it seem like the saying “good guys finish last” is being proven over and over again in the dating scene? In ” The Truth” I explore this topic. Here is a guy who has his proverbial shit together. He has a successful career, but is not defined by material items. He knows what he wants and has in life and is not afraid to share it with the right deserving women. It seems men in this position often find that women take them for granted and are more attracted to men who over promise with fairy tales and rarely if ever deliver. Why is this the case? Is it because we have been socialized to believe that “Bad Boys” or “Tough Guys” are more desirable because they are harder to obtain? And once you win the heart of one you find yourself trying to change him to a nice guy…so is it just about the challenge? Is it because nice honest guys are seen a push over’s and not protectors/providers and equated with feminine traits? Or is it that women have been socialized to believe they should want what they have been told is a “good guy” to marry without taking the time to really analyze and realize what this term means to them? What do you think?

The Rescue Plan

boscokante — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:44:51 +0000

The Economic Rescue Plan